Making Your Space Count

In the neighborhood where we work, residents do not have much space for a yard. The churchyard is about 4 feet by 20 feet and that is probably the only yard space in the immediate community.

The median between street lanes and space between the sidewalk and the street, however, has been put to good use by the neighborhood inhabitants. For example, even though a section of the median is used as a small landfill, about 100 feet away there is a stretch of concrete about 4 feet by 30 feet that has been taken over by elderly men in the community. One gentleman is out by 6:30 most mornings checking out “their” space. He will look for trash, pull a weed, and about once a week bring a bottle of liquid that he uses to scrub any stains on the concrete slab. He sits and “protects” the area until his buddies arrive an hour or two later. Someone brings the card table and dominoes and the rest of the morning is spent determining the domino champion.

One morning I was on the sidewalk waiting for a ride when I noticed a man across the street bringing out a birdcage from his home. I saw a bird in the cage, and as I watched, the man went to a young tree that was surrounded by a lattice. The man opened a door built into the lattice and inserted the cage. I could barely see a platform for the cage as he closed the door and walked away. The bird had an outdoor home during the day even though his owner had only a street front apartment and no yard.

I never think of conserving space or making better use of the space I have in the United States. But when your space is limited, you see what space you do have in a different light.

As Joseph Campbell wrote, “Your sacred space is where you can find yourself again and again.” I am inspired by the way people find ways to find themselves again and again. Once we find ourselves, we are more equipped to help others.

High Stakes Dominoes

I’ve learned the past few weeks in Natal how much the role of curiosity plays in what we pay attention to. Almost every morning, very early, I sit on our third floor balcony, which overlooks a busy city street with a median between the lanes of traffic. The median ncludes palm trees, much trash, old abandoned tires, and a small amount of space that is a tiny park with seats embedded in the concrete floor.

What draws my attention to the middle section of the street is an elderly man who comes to the same spot on the median and stands observing traffic and people.

He follows the same pattern each day. He will cross the street to his spot in the park-like area of the median, stand, and turn completely around to observe the people and the traffic. He looks down at the ground and searches for a weed to pull up, pitches it away from his space, rubs his hands together, sits on the same stool with one foot on the seat of a nearby stool, and watches. He wears flip-flops, a net tank top, and short pants. The clothes always match colors and his hair is carefully combed.

After he finishes these rituals, he greets anyone who comes near his spot.

The gentleman usually stays an hour and then leaves—probably to go home for breakfast.

Most days I see him a little later with 4-5 other “retirees” sitting on the stools playing dominoes (See picture at end of article). The many cars and motorcycles that pass by on each side do not distract them. About noon they disperse and the same routine is repeated most days .

Since I do not speak Portuguese, I can only speculate on their conversation. Do they discuss the rainy season, the amount of traffic, complain about the government? And how about the dominoes game? Do they lay money on the table and the winner gets the pot? Or is this a game just to while the time away?

I can’t resist watching each morning the rituals that unfold and the discussion over dominoes that ensues. I’m simply curious and that alone keeps my attention. Dominoes anyone? What kinds of things are you curious about? What holds your attention? Are they curious about the Americano who sits on the third-floor balcony watching them?